Things I Like...

J-Crew Cashmere zip shawl-collar sweater

2010-09-05T20:02:00.005-04:00

Remember when JCrew's most popular offering was a unisex roll neck pullover sweater in oatmeal or heather grey? Ahh, that takes me back about 16 years or so...it was quite the popular sweater when I was an undergrad...I think everyone had that sweater...in oatmeal or heather grey....I think I might just still have mine! Well, JCrew has come a long way, baby! Check out this gorgeous sweater!!! Must have in plum. I hope it goes on sale. I wish you could set an alert for them to notify you when certain items went on sale. I would tag this for sure. I love it in plum. I don't think I have an item of clothing in plum...must be a sign that I really do need this sweater.

Things I Like...zip shawl-collar sweater...in plum!

The Legend...Sing it with me yall.....

2010-09-01T21:31:00.004-04:00

I am loving John Legend lately. Maybe it's this heat, I don't know, but his slow, soulful lyrics seem just perfect for a hot summer night...cocktail in hand, hanging on the patio, moonlit night, my man....and John Legend! Slow Dance is definitely my favorite...love, love, love it!

http://s0.ilike.com/play#John+Legend:Slow+Dance:689603:s371142.10251728.3789741.0.2.15%2Cstd_15047f0305b9420d90e06a1762e13349

Thinks I Like....I propose that we go to the floor and we slooooooowwww dance.....

bootielicious

2010-08-09T20:43:00.002-04:00

I love these. I have been staring at them for about 20 minutes just imagining the outfit possibilities. Sleek and structural indeed. I wonder if they are comfortable and could support my tootsies for an 8 hour retail day?? Me thinks...probably not. They are that fabulous, though, so I may just have to throw caution to the wind on this one.

Things I like....J Crew Bronson Suede Platform Booties

I know it's the last week of July....

2010-07-28T19:54:00.004-04:00

and it was 90 out today, but my favorite time of the year to shop is right around the corner...FALL!!! So many great fall items filling up my wish list already. This sweater from LL Bean is one of them!! I am normally not a big fan of the BEAN, but I have to say some of their stuff is really cute...very JCrew-ish, don't you think? This is a really cute, stylish, transition into fall sweater....I think I may have to take a trip to the new LL Bean that just opened in Rochester!!

Things I Like...not your mother's LL Bean.

Free fallin'....

2010-07-16T20:38:00.003-04:00

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7wJ-VPqFzy0
I can totally understand why the ladies love John Mayer. Yes, he has certainly not done himself any favors lately with his kiss and tell interviews, but, just listen to this song...all will be forgiven...how could you not love him.

Things I Like...John Mayer

Jack & Annie

2010-07-13T22:07:00.003-04:00

My kids are really into The Magic Tree House series. The books are great for their age group--short sentences, easy plots that are filled with adventure and excitement, settings that introduce the kids to history and geography--opening up conversations beyond the text. The books are long enough to stretch their attention spans, and chapters are short enough to hold their attention. We take turns reading to each other, trying to elevate their reading levels a bit and really work on listening and comprehension. The kids are excited about these books! Part of this excitement is due to the fact that they have set a goal to fill up their reading "passports" this summer. After the kids finish a book they answer a 3 question "quiz" on the Magic Tree House website to test their comprehension and if they pass, they receive a passport stamp for that book that can be pasted into their passport (also available on the website). Love, love, love that my kids have this goal, they are sitting still, listening, paying attention and really into taking the quizzes to earn their stamps. I am sure that DH and I will grow tired of Jack and Annie by the end of the summer, but for now, these books are reading MAGIC.

Things I Like...The Magic that is The Magic Tree House

Fla Vor Ice

2010-07-08T21:30:00.002-04:00

Best summer treat ever. We are all addicted and with temps around 100 for the past week, we have burned through a 200 count box of these suckers. Anna only eats the red and pink, Max prefers the purple and orange, Mike takes blue, so that leaves orange and green for me and the man.

Things I Like...cold freeze pop (or two...or three...or ten) on a hot day

NAAN PIZZA...YUMMMMMMM

2010-07-07T20:31:00.002-04:00

We haven't used our stove/oven since the beginning of June. The weather has been so beautiful and there is just no reason not to grill!! I have been trying all different types of recipes for the grill and this is definitely my favorite one so far. Since I discovered this recipe about a month ago I have literally made this pizza at least twice a week....one week we had it for 5 days in a row with different toppings. I love the artichoke asiago recipe below, but my fav is a homemade margarita with fresh basil, tomatoes and a bit of spinach...oh, but wait, I also love a greek with some sundried tomato feta and kalamata olives.... It is so easy, so delicious and as nutritious as you want it to be. Serve with a salad and it is an instant meal!

Grilled Naan Pizza

Currently 5.0/5 Stars.5 ratings/reviews

SERVES 4 ACTIVE TIME: 10 min TOTAL TIME: 20 min

1/4 of 6 oz pkg Food You Feel Good About Baby Spinach (about 2 cups), divided
1 tsp Wegmans Pure Olive Oil
Salt and pepper to taste
1 pkg (2 loaves) Food You Feel Good About Traditional Naan
4 Tbsp Summer Fresh Artichoke & Asiago Dip (Cheese Shop), divided
6 Tbsp Summer Fresh Bruschetta (Cheese Shop), drained, divided
4 balls bocconcini (Mediterranean Bar), sliced into fifths, divided

Add All Ingredients to List

You'll Need: Grill foil; non-stick cooking spray

Preheat grill on MEDIUM-HIGH.

1.Toss spinach with olive oil; season to taste with salt and pepper. Set aside.

2.Spread each naan with 2 Tbsp artichoke dip; top with 1/2 spinach; 1/2 of bruschetta and mozzarella slices. Season to taste with salt and pepper.

3.Spray foil with nonstick spray; place on grill. Reduce heat to MEDIUM. Place naan pizzas on foil; cover grill. Cook 7-9 min, occasionally checking for flare-ups, until toasted but not burnt.

4.Quarter pizzas; serve immediately.

Chef Tip(s):
Combine remaining spinach with salad pairing.

Option(s):
For spicier taste, sprinkle each flatbread with 1 tsp Wegmans Barbecue Seasoning before adding toppings.

Vegetables: 1/4 cup(s)

Calories: 400

Nutrition Info: Each serving (1/2 naan pizza) contains 400 calories, 31 g carbohydrate, (2 g fiber), 15 g protein, 25 g fat, (8 g saturated fat), 35 mg cholesterol, and 790 mg sodium.

Things I like...Weggies.

The Perfect Espadrille

2010-06-30T21:03:00.002-04:00

Candice Espadrille by Kate Spade. On sale at Neimans. Love.

Things I Like...shoes

Children Inspire Design

2010-06-29T21:44:00.002-04:00

I just love the prints on this site! It almost makes me wish that I were decorating a nursery or playroom for a toddler (almost, not quite!). I especially love the wall cards, they are adorable!! Fitting with the green trend, the art is produced on recycled materials with soy ink and packaged responsibly. The little whale featured above is a limited addition print to help efforts in the gulf cost. 50% of the proceeds are donated to the National Wildlife Federation's Gulf Oil Spill Restoration Fund. The print is $30/$35 depending upon the size and you will also receive a $10 gift card to Children Inspire Design...to put towards the adorable wall cards!!
http://www.childreninspiredesign.com/
Things I Like...Children Inspire Design....love!

move over havaianas....there is a new flip flop in town

2010-06-28T21:42:00.004-04:00

oh my word!! How has it taken me until the end of JUNE to find these??? Flip flops made out of yoga mats!!! Genius!! I wish I could send in my old yoga mat and have them make a pair out of it (so green of me!)...seriously, my yoga friends will understand that you get attached to your mat and once it is too worn to use(it starts shedding), it is difficult to part with but yet, there is really nothing you can do with it...so, it sits in a corner, unused, sad...kids have a picnic on it...dog tries to chew at it...but I digress! I love my havis, but I "gotta have these" yoga flip flops :).
http://www.sanuk.com/product/341042/SWS2908/Yoga_Mats/YOGA_MAT

Things I Like...Sanuk Yoga Mat Sandals...aka a big namaste to the feet

this blog...

2010-06-24T20:29:00.005-04:00

http://www.suburbansnapshots.com/2010/06/10-reasons-having-toddler-is-like-being.html

Why Having a Toddler is
Like Being at a Frat Party*

Thursday, June 10, 2010

*That one frat party I've ever been to, having gone to a Very Serious Arts College.

10. There are half-full, brightly-colored plastic cups on the floor in every room. Three are in the bathtub.

9. There's always that one girl, bawling her eyes out in a corner.

8. It's best not to assume that the person closest to you has any control over their digestive function.

7. You sneak off to the bathroom knowing that as soon as you sit down, someone's going to start banging on the door.

6. Probably 80% of the stains on the furniture contain DNA.

5. You've got someone in your face at 3 a.m. looking for a drink.

4. There's definitely going to be a fight.

3. You're not sure whether anything you're doing is right, you just hope it won't get you arrested.

2. There are crumpled-up underpants everywhere.

1. You wake up wondering exactly how and when the person in bed with you got there.

Things I Like....Thanks, JCG!

not your garden variety hose.

2010-06-23T20:41:00.003-04:00

My little flower garden in front of our house is looking pretty. I don't plan and don't organize the flowers that I choose to plant...there is no pattern to the pretty...I see what I like, buy it and plant it. This year, we have lots of orange and purple and red going on... I can't even tell you the names of the flowers that I picked...I just walk through the garden store and pull together what I think looks pretty...be it annual or perennial...I do not discriminate. I know my gardening friends are cringing by this point. I apologize! So, girlfriend (Anna) and I were watering the flowers this morning when she told me that the hose did not match, and girlfriend was right...ugly green hose. So, I got to thinking...there must be a prettier hose out there! And guess what, there is!! Check out these rainbow colored hoses...certain to match any garden!
http://www.gardeners.com/Colorful-Garden-Hoses/Watering_New,37-516,default,cp.html

Things I Like....a hose of a different color.

six year old funny....

2010-06-21T21:00:00.004-04:00

My kids compete to make each other laugh and generally goof off to make other kids laugh (as witnessed in picture above featuring the boys and cousin Rafi--another classic jokester!). They just crack each other up. Some days it is endearing and truly funny, other days it just gets annoying! Today, they were in rare form. Mike has mastered burping words and now has taken to burping words with funny burp-voices. It is pretty funny, pretty disgusting, but the kid has a talent. Max just cracks up and says gross words (yes, we are in that gross boy stage full on!) Anna tries hard to keep up, but she is just generally very silly and non-sensical and most times cracks herself up before anyone can get in on the joke. So the kids were all hyped up and in rare form tonight on the ride back from soccer. It was borderline insane asylum behavior, lots of hysterical laughter from the back seat. All of a sudden, through giggles, Mike yelled out "Mom, is there milk coming out of my nose?" And so I responded, "What? Mike, you aren't drinking milk" To which he responded "I know, but I am laughing so hard milk is going to come out of my nose." And I thought, how great it must be to be 6 and to laugh with such abandon that you think milk is going to spontaneously squirt out of your nose!

Things I Like...silly six

White Jeans

2010-06-17T21:17:00.003-04:00

Ok, not so sure about this one as white jeans are really hard to wear, and remind me of skanky girls who hang out at the local carnival...you know the type. So, this "like" comes with 2 stipulations...1.just say no to skinny white jeans and 2. never, never ever pair white jeans with stilettos. IMHO Skinny white jeans tend to make even the skinniest most toned bodies look a bit fleshy and dare I say it? trashy...especially when paired with heels...big, big no-no unless you are posing for a fashion magazine and you have been professionally cleared to wear them. Your average, everyday gal should avoid the white skinnys like the plague as they really don't do us any favors ladies. Seriously, they are not forgiving and let's all remember that what doesn't pour in spills over...and who wants to see that?! Skinny jean and stiletto disclaimer aside, there are some really, really cute white jeans out there! I have a pair from JCrew from about 3 years ago that are a bit baggy and capri length...easy to wear and very cute with the flip flops. I must admit that they are definitely not the most kid friendly or easiest to care for and are definitely not without the occasional yellow stain from bleaching out something left behind by kid sticky fingers (your guess as to what is as good as mine!). I also love the pair pictured above from Gap...very cute, very wearable and very appealing on any body type...be it long an lean or short like me. So, moral of the story is...enjoy the trend! You too can wear white in fashion and in comfort without looking like the local hoochie-coochie.

Things I Like...white jeans with rules

Red, Red Wine

2010-06-16T20:46:00.004-04:00

I have no idea how I stumbled upon this one, but I believe I have found my favorite song for this summer. Such a great version of this classic tune. I also found out the song was written and originally recorded by Neil Diamond--not a big fan--think I will stick with this version by the virtually unknown Tony Tribe.

For your listening pleasure:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fwO_on4CZw0&feature=related

Things I like...this tune by Tony Tribe

Pineway Ponds Spray Park...AWESOME!

2010-06-11T19:13:00.011-04:00

A few days ago a I blogged about how Forbes Mag rated Rochester the #3 city to raise a family...parks like this one definitely contribute to this rating! What a little gem!! My kids LOVED this and as it is a public park, it was free. It is a new, fun, CLEAN spray park, the adjoining playground (currently under construction) is huge!, the park itself is gorgeous and clean. We were pretty much the only kids there as most are still in school (still, where were all the prek and morning k kids?). The kids splashed around in what seemed like their private water park for over 2 hours...I had to promise them we would come back to get them to leave!!! WOO HOO!!!!! Couldn't have asked for a better afternoon!!!

Things I Like...BIG smiles on a warm and sunny day!

Porkingpines and Brownedhogs

2010-06-10T21:50:00.005-04:00

My sweet little Nana is not very nature-inclined. We went on a nature hike yesterday with her class and let's just say she was done with it well before the rain started, which was well before the hike was over. It was a miserable day for a hike...cold, rainy, dank...and this set the tone for the day. First, there was a debate over the outfit..she wanted to wear a summer dress (of course) and I had the fun job of convincing her that jeans, a sweatshirt and rain coat were more appropriate for the occasion. That was Battle 1 and it ended after many 5 year old tears in a compromise of jeans and a fancy sweater. Battle 2. Shoes. Of course, it is always the shoes! Why can't we wear the sparkly flip flops to go hiking in the rain? Lasted for a good 10 minutes....she finally succumbed and put on the hot pink hello kitty rain boots...and then complained about them for the rest of the morning....but she wore them. Battle 3. We arrive at the nature center and are told that there are no umbrellas allowed. One of the other mothers tried to convince her kid that we were going to be like the frogs and have fun in the rain...worked for her kid, not so much for mine.."I don't want to be a frog. I want my princess umbrella." And so we hiked and the guide rubbed leaves together to release natural oils and scents and pointed out woodpecker holes (are we done yet?)and weeds that stick to clothing and various animal tracks and told a story about how the pond was formed and why it has no fish (let's go mommy!). We did get to see a duck and a frog...apparently they do have fun in the rain....and then it started pouring and we started walking back and aforementioned kid started making frog noises..fun! So...we walked back up the trail and gathered in a room filled with stuffed snakes and birds and rodents (squirrels and the like) and some living things too. We were treated to a little info. session re: animals that we may have seen on the hike had it been a nicer day. The kids were allowed to pet (EWWW!) a salamander, a snake (it was from Africa, not sure we would have run into that one on the trail!), a butterfly, turtles and here is the topper a damned groundhog named Dandelion. Is that just weird to anyone else? Am I a crazy parent to have worried about my kid petting an animal that is for all intents and purposes a wild rat? Bugs?? Claws?? Well, despite my hesitation (disgust) the petting portion went off without a hitch. Anna was happy to pet Dandelion b/c she loves animals and thought she was sooo cute. I just about keeled over in my chair...my little girl petting a rodent, an overgrown squirrel...this she liked (thank god for purell!)...and it actually turned the "hike" into something that she enjoyed! In relaying the story of her day to her dad, she spoke fondly about the "porkingpine" that she pet. In telling the story to my mom, she relayed how cute the "brownedhog" was. So, thank you Dandelion the porkingpine/brownedhog/ground hog for making this a memorable and enjoyable hike for my sweet little girl.

Things I Like...Dandelion the porkingpine.

Silence! Wired or Wireless!!

2010-06-09T21:27:00.004-04:00

Our household is very loud. The kids are very loud. The dog is very loud. Mom and Dad are very loud so the very loud kids can hear us over each other and the dog. The toys in our house are very loud. The TV is always too loud, computers...yup, too loud. And if we are all very loud in the house, imagine the fun that is the car ride on most days.....and then just imagine about when we travel, which we do often. I just can't take it any longer. We tried to get the kids to wear headphones on our last car trip, but the non-ear bud style that we could find last minute were way too big, so kids got frustrated with them....and then their complaints were even louder. SO I have been searching for some earphones for them and stumbled across these. They are an iParenting Media Award winner and are supposed to have lower decibel levels to protect those little ears (and they will have to sit very quietly to hear :)! My kids are 6 and 5...too young for ipods? I know that would be a perfect combo!!

Things I like....peace and quiet...even if I have to pay for it!!
http://www.gearforkidz.com/shop2.html

Thank you Forbes!

2010-06-08T21:16:00.004-04:00

Finally some positive press. I for one am sick of Rochester getting a bad rap and it is good to be recognized for something other than Wegmans!! When you ask any Rochesterian about what it is like to live here, at some point in their response, usually in the first sentence (after Wegmans has been mentioned, of course), you will hear something like "It is a great place to raise a family." And it is! In addition to the incredible housing prices, the short commute times, great schools, and cultural amenities mentioned in Forbes, Rochester and its surrounding suburbs have gorgeous parks, plentiful playgrounds, top ranked medical facilities and universities, minor league teams with good fan bases, great canal communities, the lake!, gorgeous farms, good snow and mountains to ski on, great restaurants, lots of fun festivals, fabulous museums, loads of history and some good fly fishing (thank you Mitia!) and overall really nice people. We are down-to-earth Midwest with a Northeast flair. It is a really easy place to live and a great place to grow up. I am sure that there are more exciting places to be, and I have lived in some of them, but when it comes down to it, Rochester is not Philly or Boston or New York, and that is exactly why many of my friends with young families have moved back from those cities... So listen up all you naysayers out there, Rochester is a GREAT place to live so try spending less time complaining about the weather and more time enjoying all that the city has to offer!

Things I Like...my hometown & Forbes!
http://www.forbes.com/2010/06/04/best-places-family-lifestyle-real-estate-cities-kids.html

Tara Design

2010-06-07T21:23:00.005-04:00

Arcona Spa and now Tara Design are the reasons I may have to relocate to LA (would never happen, earthquakes). Seriously, if I ever get to LA, this will be the first place I visit. I love it all...the furniture, the textiles, the accessories...the colors are so delicious and I can only imagine how gorgeous the fabrics are...I just want to reach out and touch them. Why is there no store like this in Rochester? Ahh, I guess it is for the best for now...as soon as my kids and dog reach the point where we actually deserve nice things again (aka can have in the house for more than 24 hours without getting stained, broken or chewed!), look out Tara Design...here I come!!

Things I Like....daydreaming about redecorating....from Tara Design n (give your eyes a treat and check them out on facebook)

The Maxi Dress

2010-06-04T20:55:00.004-04:00

I love this dress on Nana. She was drawn to it in the store ("Oh my god mommy, look...at...this..dress)and I knew we weren't leaving without it. She has worn it almost every other day since. It is a really cute dress and surprisingly well made for the price. Old Navy $12 on sale...can't beat that!

Things I Like...having a girly girl!

Everywhere I Go....

2010-06-03T21:37:00.003-04:00

Currently the song on repeat on my ipod. I just can't listen to this one enough. It is so very Mazzy Star...and oh how I love Mazzy Star....and oh how I love Lissie. This song is haunting and beautiful and soulful and wow...just a huge, huge voice. She has been likened to Stevie Nicks and Chrissie Hynde (BIG names, a bit of a stretch me thinks), but nonetheless, she is really, really good...I am sticking with a likeness to Hope Sandoval of Mazzy Star fame. Does it really matter? Nope, she is talented in her own right and Everywhere I Go is an amazing song...check it out if you have not already done so!

Things I Like...Angels will fall on me and take me to my home....soulful songstress Lissie!!!

Beyond Yoga Bermudas

2010-06-02T21:23:00.004-04:00

Another comfort over fashion blog. I am in love with my Beyond Yoga Bermuda shorts. I have rediscovered them this spring/summer and have to say they are the most comfortable shorts I own. They wash well, never fade and are just so damn soft and comfortable...I try to wear something else, but they just call me from the closet. They are GREAT for hot yoga in the summer and even better for just wearing around. Love them!!

Things I Like....Beyond Yoga Bermuda Yoga Shorts

my favorite kid t's

2010-06-01T22:22:00.008-04:00

I am one of those moms who save some of their kids' things for when they are older. I have a box of their cutest stuff neatly put aside for each kid... I plan on giving it to them when they have kids of their own....well, that's the intention anyway! So, I was cleaning out some drawers today and stumbled across my favorite, favorite, favorite t-shirts that Max and Mike wore when they were like 2. I will have to find photos of them in the shirts and post at a later date, but until that happens I was able to find pics of the T's online.

Favorite T #1: Does it get any cuter??

Favorite T #2: Mike wore this one and actually had a matching hairdo--def the most commented upon shirt ever.

Things I Like....Kitschy Cool Kid T's

Sesame Noodle Pasta

2010-05-31T20:40:00.006-04:00

Picnic season is officially here! I thought I would share one of my favorite picnic recipes. I have made this for many a picnic and must say that each time it is a hit!! It is so easy to make and a delicious compliment to most summer dishes. This dish should be prepared the night before so the noodles can soak up the sauce.

Enjoy!!

Combine the following in a saucepan and heat on low until sugar dissolves, about 5 minutes.

6 minced garlic cloves
6 tbs. sugar
6 tbs. seasoned rice wine vinegar
6 tbs. soy sauce
4 tbs. canola oil
4 tbs. sesame oil

Cook 1lb. linguine pasta as per directions on box. Drain

Pour sauce over noodles and mix. Refrigerate overnight.

Before serving add 6 thinly sliced scallions and one chopped red bell pepper. Sprinkle generously with toasted sesame seeds (about 4 tbs).

Things I Like...Sesame Noodle Pasta

Would you wear this? Would your sports playing daughter??

2010-05-26T20:48:00.006-04:00

I love stretchy headbands and really love the fancy bands that are popular right now. This is how I like to wear them.

It has recently been brought to my attention that these bands are also very popular with the highschool/college sporty girls.

So, here is my question. Do your sports girls wear them? Would their teams wear them? Would you pay $8 for a headband?
I love them and think they are adorable but am wondering how they would go over with the girls soccer/baseball/basketball/cheerleading/field hockey/lacrosse/track (good god those are all the sports I can think of)teams.

Things I Like...Sparkly headbands!

Shimmy Fringe Tank

2010-05-25T22:31:00.003-04:00

Wow, I love this tank and am soooo bummed that it is sold out...especially because it was only $30. Steal. Seriously, this could have been a great little summer addition right up there next to the white skinny jeans that will never make it to my closet. So sad...I will just have to imagine that in my dream 5 foot 8 self (all legs, of course!) I rocked the white skinny jeans and the shimmy fringe tank. Some real world good did come out of this find that was not really a find...a great new website to paruse...lulus.com.

Things I Like...the shimmy fringe tank that is no longer available and probably not a realistic option in the first place!:(

Harem Pant?

2010-05-24T21:07:00.004-04:00

So what do we think about the harem pant? Are they about to be the next big thing once we see how fabulous the Sex And The City ladies look on the big screen in the arab-inspired fashions? OR flashback MC Hammer?? I am not sure if I would wear them as they are just not me (ie: they are not sweats/yoga pants), but I sure do think these are gorgeous pants, and I sure do know some women who would wear them well!!

Things I like (on other people)...The Harem Pant
Featured pant: MARC BY MARC JACOBS "Wythe" Sateen Harem Pant PRICE: $228.00

Wham-O!

2010-05-23T21:20:00.004-04:00

Sad but true, as children my brother and I were not allowed to have a Slip N Slide as it was deemed a dangerous toy by my mother. I don't think I ever had the pleasure of slippin' and slidin' a summer day away...not even at a friends house because we were well trained to stay away from those neck breaking plastic sheets... Crazy and I am sure therapy should be required to work through the residuals from that type of thinking about a Slip N Slide, but I digress. Anyway, we had a pool, so don't feel too badly for us...our summer rec was taken care of! Well, my kids don't have a pool and so I bought them a Slip N Slide and would be lying if I didn't say that I had a real moment of hesitation filled with worry about broken limbs before I actually took the thing to the register. There was no way I was getting out of that store without it as the kids were already planning their afternoon around it! The kids have spent the last 3 days having a blast on the Slip N Slide! Champ has also taken a liking to it...we bought the double Slip N Slide that has a small pool at the end which Champ has adopted as his personal pond. He rolls around on it and tries to drink/catch the water from the side sprinklers, and of course runs after the kids as they each take their turns. It is too funny to watch Champ and the kids negotiate (ie: trip and fall) around each other! And I am happy to report no broken human or canine bones as of yet. Today, the kids even convinced me and their dad to take a turn....and much to my own surprise, we were good sports and good parents and actually did it! So, at thirty something, I finally had my first turn on a Slip N Slide today...kind of embarrassing to admit. The kids flipped out, thought it was the most hysterical thing to see us run and jump and slide on our bellies (in our clothes!)...and I think the neighbors who were out gardening thought we were nuts. Whatevs, we did it for the kids :)!

Things I like...Slip N Slide by Wham-O!

New Obsession

2010-05-21T22:42:00.004-04:00

OMG. Obsession. Addiction. We are all loving this one and Wegmans is partly to blame as they have had Ben & Jerry's on sale for about a month now! Can I convince myself that because it is yogurt it is good for you??? The kids seem to think so, soooo, I think I will just go with it! Ben/Jerry/Love/Hate.

Things I Like. Ben & Jerry's Chocolate Fudge Brownie Low Fat Frozen Yogurt.

Linen Shift Dress

2010-05-20T20:47:00.004-04:00

My birthday is coming up and I am in full hint dropping mode. This adorable Lucky Brand linen slip dress is high on my list for this year and I just hope that it will look as cute on me as it does in the pics and on the mannequin. This is one of those summer dresses that I could see myself living in...as in I would probably wear it everyday. No joke, I had a little sun dress one summer that I literally wore almost everyday for about 2 months...it was so cute and comfortable and just easy to pair with some great flip flops...viola! outfit complete. As a busy mom who is about to get 1000x busier over the next few months as we prepare to open the store, this is just the outfit I need to resolve my morning outfit crisis....at least for 2 or 3 days during the week (the other 4 or 5 I will probably alternate between my hardtail yoga capris with a tank and my be present yoga capris with a tank). So there you have it...now I just have to figure out how to subtly hint that this dress could only be complete with a pair of navy blue Lori Jack Havaianas!

Things I Like...Luck Brand Embroidered Linen Shift dress
http://www.luckybrand.com/Embroidered-Linen-Shift-Dress/LBW00271,default,pd.html?cgid=womensNewArrivals

Pink Lemonade Margarita

2010-05-19T20:34:00.003-04:00

One of my favorite summertime memories is sitting at the Boston Harbor Hotel on a warm evening drinking Pink Lemonade Margarita's with friends. BHH had the best pink lemonade margaritas back in the day...wonder if they still do? Will have to check it out this summer when we visit Boston! Anywho, Memorial Day is right around the corner and I thought I would share a recipe for this great summer drink! Enjoy!!

Ingredients
1/4 cup tequila
2 tablespoons orange liqueur
2 tablespoons frozen pink lemonade concentrate
3/4 cup ice
2 tablespoons carbonated lemon-lime beverage
sliced lemon, for garnish
Directions
1 Combine the first 3 ingredients in a cocktail shaker with 3/4 cup ice and shake vigorously.
2 Pour into glass.
3 Top with lemon-lime beverage, and garnish with lemon.

Things I Like....PLM

Supta Baddha Konasana

2010-05-18T20:54:00.003-04:00

Best...Restorative Pose....Ever.
It was a Supta Baddha Konasana kind of day.

Things I like....Reclined Bound Angle Pose.

Brow Diva

2010-05-17T20:46:00.003-04:00

Definitely one of my favorite places in Rochester...Brow Diva!! I am a recovering brow plucking addict and owe my friends at the Brow Diva a huge thanks for saving my brows! I have been seeing the Diva for about a year now and have to say that she has transformed my brows....they have gone from over-plucked and strangely arched to perfectly shaped in just a few trips! I just love the whole experience, a mini-spa for the brows!! If you are ever lucky enough to visit this great city of Rochester you must make a trip to the Diva!!

Things I Like....Beautiful Brows!!

Ipod

2010-05-08T17:05:00.004-04:00

I am off again! Flying out tomorrow for a week of training. We all know that I am a "nervous flier." I rely on my ipod and a trashy magazine to get me through each flight. So, in prepping my trusty Ipod for my trip, I thought I would share my top 10 in-flight tunes in no certain order as this blog will also be on hiatus for the week while I am away!

SO here goes!!

1. Glitter in the Air...P!nk
2. Om Narayana...Wade Imre Morisette
3. Shine On...Wade Imre Morisette
4. Let's Get it Started....Black Eyed Peas
5. Atomic....Blondie
6. Time After Time...Eva Cassidy
7. Feeling Good...Nina Simone
8. Obvious Child...Paul Simon
9. Beastie Boys...Hey Ladies and/or Body Movin'
10. Anything and Everything by Krishna Das
Bonus: Stevie Wonder and Fleetwood Mac

So, there you have it, however, odds are I will replay 1,2,3,6 (my "if I were on American Idol" daydream song) and 8 so many times they will take up the duration of the flight!

Things I Like...In-flight anti-anxiety...I saw Bret Michaels on the cover of People and hope that Glamour has some good reading too :)!!

My favorite OPI

2010-05-07T21:13:00.005-04:00

Hooray! It is finally the season for flip flops and toe cleavage!! After the long winter, my feet are in need of some tlc, a pedicure is definitely in order! Try as I might to change my pattern, I am a creature of habit and always reach for my favorite OPI shade of red to decorate my toes (actually, I bring my own bottle with me!)drum roll please.....I'm Not Really A Waitress! This is definitely the best red out there and will make your toes pop!! Great for the everyday flip flop or a dressy pair of wedges.

Things I Like...I'm Not Really A Waitress by OPI

Mitia

2010-05-06T21:22:00.003-04:00

So...I asked hubby what I should blog about tonight having hit a creative wall...and thinking he is funny he snidely replied, "you never blog about me,I just want you to like me." So, here is to my darling husband, the person in the world I like the most.

Things I like, love, adore...I won the lottery of love :)

Spoon(s)

2010-05-05T20:38:00.003-04:00

We read two of the cutest books tonight!! Spoon by Amy Krouse Rosenthal was one of them...the other I will save for another blog! Spoon is about a spoon who is feeling "blue" because he does not think himself as interesting or exciting as fork, knife or chopsticks. Spoon thinks they have all of the fun and have the most important jobs. Little does spoon know that fork, knife and chopsticks envy HIM and his jobs...banging on pots and pans, diving head first into ice cream, taking a hot soak in tea. This is a really creative, adorable read!! It holds great lessons...appreciate who you are, obviously, but also a lesson about being creative. This author wrote about a spoon! She looked around her house and made up a wonderful story about a utensil! Next time my kids are uninspired, I will remind them to study their environment and to think about Spoon...and how creativity is boundless!

Things I Like...the life and lessons of Spoon

Miniluxe

2010-05-04T08:26:00.003-04:00

My tootsies and my psyche are in need of some pampering and I would love nothing more than to head on over to a Miniluxe for an awesome pedi. But, alas, here in Rochie, Miniluxe is not an option. I am hoping that they franchise outside of the Boston area because they really do offer the perfect pedicure...not too low end sticky(you know what I mean) not high end spa that eats up hours of your day...just a clean, hospital grade clean!, cool, very cool, GOOD, VERY GOOD pedicure....at a very reasonable price. Next time I am in Boston I will definitely try to make some time to pretty up my peds.
http://www.miniluxe.com/

Things I Like...Miniluxe...we need to get them to franchise!!

My favorite lunch....

2010-05-03T21:52:00.002-04:00

This has become an addiction...and no, I am not pregnant...and no, I don't eat it fried like Elvis. I simply toast a slice of Wegmans whole grain bread(delish!), smear on some Wegmans organic crunchy peanut butter (the best peanut butter ever!) and slice up a banana on top...soo good! Pair this healthy sandwich with a glass of (chocolate) skim milk and you have a vitamin and mineral frenzy for lunch!

Things I Like...PB&B

endless neon ponyball

2010-05-02T20:45:00.003-04:00

My sanity needs this. Every morning I find myself frantically searching drawers for elastic hairbands. Anna has such thick hair she usually needs 2 elastic hair bands for a pony tail and 4 to hold in pig tails....and once her hair is all set, the search begins for two hair bands to hold my hair back in the pony tail that my hair undoubtedly ends up in each day. I feel like I buy a pack of hair bands every month, and I have no idea where they disappear to. You think I would be smart enough to start an elastic hair band ball on my own....but I don't think I have the patience....and as I said, can only scrounge up 6 hair bands on a good day....6 does not a ball make. I have tried keeping them in designated drawers and even bought a little bin to try and organize them and keep them together within the drawer...still, it seems that someone in my home is eating these things....I just don't get how they disappear. So perhaps we try the ball....I can part with $16.50 to get some sanity and time back in the morning.

Things I Like...Enldess Neon Ponyball (Jcrew.com)

roger arguer fish bowls

2010-04-30T21:32:00.003-04:00

Beautiful fish bowls!! I have no idea where one would buy these or how much they cost, as I couldn't find them for sale anywhere on the web...but thought they were very, very cool!! I love the idea of a fish bowl vase...might have to try a homemade version of that one!

Things I Like...funky fish bowls

MARCHING FOR BABIES

2010-04-29T20:38:00.005-04:00

March of Dimes is an organization near and dear to our hearts. Our sons, Max and Michael were born at 25 weeks, weighing in at about a pound each. The boys survived and are THRIVING because of the medical care they received during those most critical early days. Without the MOD they would not be here today. We are walking as a family this Sunday in gratitude to help raise money to support the MOD. Although we are starting small this year and haven't pledged to raise a large amount of money, we know that every small donation helps!!
If you would like to support the MOD, please click on our link and make a secure donation. Any amount is greatly appreciated and will go a long way in helping to save the lives of the millions of babies born too soon and too sick every year!
To make a donation, visit my personal Web page at
http://www.marchforbabies.org/Lopoukhine

THANK YOU!!!!

Things I Like...March of Dimes March for Babies!!!

The World's Greatest Flip Flop

2010-04-28T20:25:00.003-04:00

Havies = Best Flop Flop Ever. Now it just has to get warm enough (or at least stop snowing) for me to wear them. Rumor has it Gap is carrying them this season for around $18. I would love to splurge for a pair adorned with swarovski crystals (not $18, but $135)...and just might convince myself they (and I!) are worth it this summer.

Things I LOVE...Havaianas (which means Hawaiian in Portuguese)

The High Priestess of Soul

2010-04-27T20:58:00.005-04:00

As odd as it may sound, it was my yoga class tonight that reminded me how much I love Nina Simone. Her music is as interesting as her story...covering all genres and ranging from the lows to the highs in both tone and emotion. She defined musical expression of emotion and is truly deserving of the title High Priestess of Soul. She was also a diagnosed schizophrenic with multiple personality and bipolar disorder which makes her contributions and accomplishments that much more astonishing.
I am again amazed at how what you need in life is delivered in one way or another at the time you need it. Feeling Good is the song that was played in my class tonight...Itunes it!

Feeling Good
Birds flying high you know how I feel
Sun in the sky you know how I feel
Breeze driftin' on by you know how I feel

It's a new dawn
It's a new day
It's a new life
For me
And I'm feeling good

Fish in the sea you know how I feel
River running free you know how I feel
Blossom on the tree you know how I feel

It's a new dawn
It's a new day
It's a new life
For me
And I'm feeling good

Dragonfly out in the sun you know what I mean, don't you know
Butterflies all havin' fun you know what I mean
Sleep in peace when day is done
That's what I mean
And this old world is a new world
And a bold world
For me

Stars when you shine you know how I feel
Scent of the pine you know how I feel
Oh freedom is mine
And I know how I feel

It's a new dawn
It's a new day
It's a new life
For me
And I'm feeling good

I'm feeling good

Things I Like...singer, song writer, activist, pianist....Nina Simone

Earth Day Ice Cream

2010-04-26T21:36:00.004-04:00

Anna's pre-k celebrated Earth Day today by recycling coffee cans--using them to make ice cream! The kids had a great time, the ice cream was easy (and fun!) to make, and the ice cream actually turned out to be delicious!! It was such a success, I think I am going to do this at home with my kiddos on a rainy day.

You need:
3 pound coffee can (cleaned and rinsed)
1 pound coffee can (cleaned and rinsed)
duct tape

1/3 cup sugar
small container heavy cream
pint of half and half
cap full of vanilla

ice
rock salt or kosher salt

Pour half the heavy cream and half and half into the small coffee can, add 1/3 cup sugar and about a cap full of vanilla. Mix. Put the lid on and seal with duct tape. Seal VERY WELL, taping across and around as you don't want the ice/salt mix to get into this can.

Place small can in the large can. Surround small can with ice, fill large can half way with ice, add layer of salt, layer ice to top, add another layer of salt. Seal large can with duct tape. Again, seal well.

Have the kids face each other and roll the can back and forth for about 10 minutes.
After 10 minutes, remove smaller can, mix, should be fairly solid. Recap and place in freezer for about an hour.to let set/harden. (you can also reseal both cans and continue to roll for another 10 minutes).

Enjoy with your favorite toppings!

Things I Like...Recycling for Ice Cream!!

Bret Michaels

2010-04-25T21:01:00.004-04:00

So I am sitting here, exhausted, watching Celebrity Apprentice trying to figure out what I like today. In walks Bret Michaels. I was never a fan of his music back in the day, can't stand Rock of Love (although I loved the SNL skit) and honestly, find him physically repulsive (not my type at all) but I have to say, I totally respect him in this show and really like this side of Bret. He is a hard worker, a team player, an out-loud thinker, and just seems to be humble, much more genuine than I would have anticipated. I like that thy are portraying him as a real guy, focused on his cause and facing real and very serious life issues in the show (his own history with diabetes and concern for his child). He is dynamic and very likeable. Maybe some of you have felt this about Bret since high school, maybe its just that Hollywood spin...I don't know, but I have a new found respect for him.

Things I Like...Get Well Soon Bret Michaels!

Cucuzza.....or as we say, Gagootz

2010-04-24T21:17:00.005-04:00

Addiction: Zucchini. Started last summer for me and hasn't waned a bit. I am so happy we are almost back in full-swing Zucchini season!! I think we eat zucchini in one form or another at least 2-3x/week. My favorite is sauteed with white wine, shallots and garlic, mixed in whole grain rice and sprinkled with a bit of grated parm....I could live on this! Below is another favorite recipe.

GAGOOTZ(zucchini)

In a tablespoon or so of olive oil, saute:

3 stalks celery diced
1 medium onion diced

Saute just until it starts getting tender, then add:

5 Chopped fresh tomatoes (I usually remove most of the seeds)
5 Diced baby zucchini
Fresh minced garlic (use at least 2 cloves, more if you like garlic)
1-2 bay leaves
Salt and pepper to taste

Simmer it slowly so that it makes its own soup. Before the Gagootz is ready, cook up some ditalini noodles to al dente.

Serve the Gagootz over the ditalini, toss in some browned Sopressata sausage, and top with freshly grated parm or pecorino romano cheese.

I have also made this as a risotto dish and it is delish!!

Things I Like...Mi piaci cucuzza (I apologize to all my Italian friends if I got this wrong!)

Curvy Denim Flare Pants

2010-04-23T21:40:00.003-04:00

I was in the Gap today and stumbled across these great pants!! I am not a big fan of jeans, mostly because I am not a tall girl and find it hard to find a pair of jeans that fits me well. I liked that these are denim, but more like a pant and are a bit dressier than your average, every day jean. They are actually very nice on, and are a very soft denim material. I knew it was a purchase meant to be when they had my size in the ankle length AND they were on sale for $25 (regular $59.50). I couldn't go wrong at that price!! I might even go back tomorrow and get the regular length in the event these shrink up over time. If you are looking for a dressier jean at a great price, head on over to your local Gap!

Things I Like...Denim Pants (not jeans)

Arancia di Capri

2010-04-22T20:31:00.005-04:00

I love Acqua di Parma perfumes and have been wearing Arancia di Capri scent for about 15 years now! Arancia di Capri is a wonderfully fresh, soft, soothing scent--a delicious blend of essential oils of orange, tangerine, lemon and grapefruit. It is a perfect scent for spring/summer...so clean and fresh! It definitely lifts the spirit, bringing peace and happiness to mind!
http://www.acquadiparma.it/en/world_origini.html

Things I like...pretending to be on the Isle of Capri with a spritz of Arancia!

Lucky Brand Sweater Shrug

2010-04-21T21:01:00.002-04:00

I couldn't figure out how to save a picture of the front of this adorable sweater shrug from the Lucky site, so you will have to click on this link to see it (trust me, you will want to see it!)
http://www.luckybrand.com/Womens-Sweaters/womensTopsSweaters,default,sc.html?navpos=topNav
I need to have this. I live in J-Crew's favorite tank during the summers and this shrug is just about to revolutionize my tank-wearing world. I feel like a bratty teen coveting everything I see right now, but I think I may need, and know that I definitely want every top featured on the link page. I am feeling Lucky this spring/summer, could be my new favorite!

Things I Like...Lucky Brand Sweater Shrugs...any/all will do!

2010-04-20T20:13:00.003-04:00

This could quite possibly be the best pet-related invention ever. I am not kidding, I think this tool just might preserve some of my sanity! I am going crazy with all of the dog hair everywhere....tumbleweeds of Champ hair in every corner. Dog hair all over my furniture (even though the dog is not allowed on the furniture it finds its way somehow) and of course, the worst, all over the clothes. I can't stand dog hair on clothing, drives me nuts!!! I have strategically placed those 3M sticky rollers throughout the house (and car) and the kids know we do "hair check" before leaving the house...they put their arms up in the air and spin while I roll them off!
So, I am hoping that my investment in the Furminator will pay off and save me from being overtaken by dog hair. While this is not a picture of my dog, it is a pretty accurate representation of the undercoat of hair I was able to brush off Champ today. Thank God I was smart enough to brush him outside! Champ loved it, he wanted me to keep brushing him, I am sure it must feel good to shed some of that unwanted furry coat!!
If you are a dog owner and don't yet own a Furminator but have thought about making the purchase, I would suggest buying through Amazon. I think we paid $29 for the large brush with free shipping (sells for $59.95 at Pet Smart).

Things I like....The Furminator

Talavera!

2010-04-19T21:43:00.003-04:00

My cousin is getting married in Mexico this July and while we cannot attend (boo!) my parents are going and I have already placed my "goodies" order with them! Because they cannot bring me back what I would really want, authentic salsa, guacamole or enchiladas, by default at the top of my list is some authentic talavera pottery. I love talavera...so pretty, so bright, so much fun! I am not looking for anything big, just a few mugs, a platter or pitcher, maybe. We have been gifted some small pieces over the years from au pairs (from Mexico) and various family members and I just love how different each piece is, how they brighten a space and add a story. To learn more about talavera http://www.inside-mexico.com/art1.htm

Things I Like...labor of love...handcrafted, fine Mexican pottery...TALAVERA!!

Be Present

2010-04-18T20:36:00.003-04:00

My new favorite pants. Get used to seeing them because I will probably be wearing them every day from here on out. These are the most comfortable pants and are perfect for spring/summer---and they are so cute. Bonus! Dog hair does not stick to them!! Great for yoga, great for everyday!

Things I Like...Be Present Agility Yoga Pant

Strong Museum of Play

2010-04-16T18:56:00.003-04:00

I am finally at the point in my parenting life that I am able to enjoy the Strong Museum of Play with my kids. Ok, well maybe not enjoy with them, but enjoy watching them. They are old enough now that I can just sit back and watch them explore, play and have a good time. No more chasing little ones around, running in multiple directions, needing a second set of hands and eyes to help... sianara strollers, bye-bye diaper bag, adios Baby Bjorn...all I needed was my purse today! I am now a free woman at the museum of play. Whereas this was once a place associated with dread and synonymous with exhaustion, today I found myself electing to take the kids there as a treat, because I was already exhausted and didn't want to have to be an overly engaged parent tasked with entertaining three kiddos on a rainy Friday afternoon. And being a Friday afternoon when most kids are still in school, I knew it would probably be pretty empty, or at least not the zoo it is on weekends and school vacations. BINGO! So, hmmm, I plotted to surprise them with a visit to the museum. My plan was to follow their lead, plop myself down on the well placed benches in each area and just watch them have fun....and it worked!!! Genius!! I was such a lazy mommy today, it was wonderful. I treated them to the butterfly exhibit, a spin on the train (which they have just about outgrown) and a ride on the carousel (I don't even have to ride on the carousel with them anymore...wahoo!). I parked my butt at every opportunity possible and let them go for it! I watched some of the other mommies chase their little ones around, and I didn't even care that some parents gave me that "look" ...you know, that disapproving look that says "I can't believe you are just sitting there like a lump and not engaging with your children." At those moments I wished I had some bon-bons, and just chocked those looks up to jealousy...ahh yes, my friends, it was like having an afternoon off!! I swear, the most energy I exerted was driving to and from. And get this, it was all free (we paid for a membership which has paid for itself already) no cash needed! The best part is that they had such a good time and thought I was the best mom ever for taking them to such a fun place. Ahhhh....gotta love it!!

Things I Like...Being a lazy mommy on a lazy Friday afternoon...kids none-the-wiser and all-the-happier!

Happy Civilization Day!

2010-04-15T20:36:00.004-04:00

I like paying taxes. I must be kidding, right? No, actually I am not. I don't like to get all political in my blog, so I won't. AND I live in NYS, a state that taxes up the wazoo. We are taxed on just about everything, and yes, some days, I agree some of the taxes are a bit ridiculous, but generally, I am not aggravated by having to pay tax. I view them as my US membership fee--sort of like belonging to the Y. We all pay to belong and upkeep the infrastructure and to cover those who may be less fortunate than we are at the time. Sometimes we are not always happy about how our money is being used, perhaps we would rather have state of the art treadmills than a new play area for kids or additional water aerobics classes for the seniors, but that is just how it works...perhaps next year the money will go to the treadmills.
As promised, I will stop before getting into my political beliefs, and will simply rely on Justice OW Holmes to sum it up for me: "I like to pay taxes. With them I buy civilization."

Things I Like....Roads and highways, public education, the internet, the broadcast airwaves, our power grid.......the vast infrastructure available as a result of our taxes, the taxes that came before us, and the taxes to come!

The Green Pan

2010-04-14T21:04:00.004-04:00

So while I was in Marshalls this week not buying a cute new pair of clogs (see previous blog) I did scoop up this new little frying pan. I had never heard of the Green Pan line, but liked the idea of a green pan so thought I would give it a try. So far, I have to say, next to my trusty iron skillet, this is my favorite pan! It is awesome. Totally non-stick, cooks super fast and cooks well! I am really impressed with the pan. As far as the "green" is concerned, I am not sure I am totally convinced. The pan claims that it is a safe non-stick frying pan--no PTFE or PFOA--I like that, but not so sure about the Thermolon non-stick technology the pan does use. I haven't heard much about Thermolon, but the Green Pan site claims that it is a healthy alternative...hmmm must do more research on this one. Green Pan also claims it is manufactured responsibly. No PFOA emitted into the environment and a claim of 60% less CO2 emissions compared to PTFE coated pans. So this is all good, I guess, but what I really like and can rely on is that it makes a mean grilled cheese!

Things I like...the mean, green grilling machine...The Green Pan

Clogs!

2010-04-13T21:00:00.002-04:00

I love clogs...always have...always will. I am so happy to see all of the updated clog-inspired shoes in the magazines and stores this season!! Some really, really cute versions of the clog out there! I was in Marshalls today and saw these fabulous shoes for somewhere in the ballpark of $150, considering they retail for $240 at Neiman Marcus and other high-end stores, that is a steal. I had them in hand ready to buy, but then the practical part of my brain kicked in and I put them down. Ugh. Regret. Perhaps I will get lucky and find them on the sale wall shelf-thingy in a few weeks and score an even bigger bargain. If you love them and can part with $150 rush on over to the Marshalls in Pittsford and pick up a pair (and don't put them down).

Things I like...7 for All Mankind Taffy Huarache Slingback Clog

Wegmans Crispy Cookies

2010-04-12T20:26:00.003-04:00

My new weakness. I can't have these in the house. If you are near a Wegmans and you love chocolate you have to try these amazing little bites of heaven. If you are a soft-batch cookie kind of person, these may not be for you, but if you like the crispy edges of a brownie, or a cookie that snaps...well, you can thank me later or curse me later for introducing you to your new obsession. I swear, I can't buy these again...they are that good.

Things I Like...too much...Crispy Chocolate Chocolate Chip Cookies (damn you Wegmans!)

Faded Photographs

2010-04-11T19:43:00.004-04:00

My extended family celebrated my paternal grandmothers 85th birthday yesterday! It was really nice to celebrate her life, and to get together with my aunts and uncles and cousins who live in the area. I know having 4 generations of her family gathered around her to celebrate was a great gift for my grandma. I always love these "events" with my extended family. For me, yesterday's gathering also provided one of those moments where you take stock of your life, of where you come from, where you might be headed and what, through it all grounds you.
My extended family is a big one--my grandmother and grandfather have 9 children (7 boys and 2 girls), 23 grandchildren and 16 great-grandchildren (sorry if I missed anyone). My mom and dad grew up together and so their families pretty much always knew one another...the result being my aunts, uncles and cousins on my moms side are also pretty much intermingled with the aunts,uncles and cousins on my dads side...we have always been one big, intermingled family! Counting both sides, I have 11 aunts and uncles and 29 cousins. This extended family, near and far, has occupied a central part of my life for as long as I can remember, I can't imagine not having the stability and chaos that comes with it...aunts who are like second moms, cousins who are more like sisters. This family network of sorts has always been the central characteristic of my persona--through it all, I have always come from, been grounded in and supported by a family that extends beyond my parents and brother (it takes a village!). I truly appreciated this yesterday and am really very grateful for this gift, and hope that its importance extends to and beyond my children.
As per usual at our family gatherings we relived old memories and shared lots of laughs and old stories...some retold for the umpteenth time, others new and destined to become classics treasured at each telling (uncle K and the beatles wig)...lots of laughs. I also "stumbled upon" my parents book of wedding proofs, and had a fun time looking through these old pictures. Appropriate to the celebration of my grandmother and her greatest accomplishment, he is one of my very favorite pictures from that album.

This is a picture of my dads immediate family. His parents, 6 brothers (and one of their wives), and 2 sisters. I am not sure how my grandmother is still sane having raised 7 boys, but God bless her!

Things I LOVE...the gram, the fam and that photos never get old

Good things to come

2010-04-08T13:29:00.004-04:00

I am a nervous flier...more than that...I hate flying and am about two hours away from leaving on a jet plane. Needless to say, my anxiety is on high....add into that a threat of thunderstorms at the exact time the flight is to leave and predictions from the weather channel that there is a strong possibility of moderate to sever turbulence along my route (why do I check these things!!) and well, panic might be in my future. The point of this is that I will be out of town for the next couple of days without access to a computer and so this blog will be on hiatus for for a bit as I travel deeper into the mid-west to explore some good things to come. If all works the way it should, more dets to follow shortly! So, I will ignore my racing heart and all those butterflies in my stomach, put on a brave face and board that plane in the hopes of good and exciting things to come!

Things I like...a flight to possibility

Sigg-nature Water Bottle

2010-04-07T18:26:00.004-04:00

I signed the boys up for summer soccer today and also found the perfect eco-friendly water bottle for my little spring/summer sports stars! Greensender.com offers personalized Sigg water bottles. Simply select the bottle type, color, design, font and text! They have great kid friendly designs--any sport you can think of! and some cool superhero stuff! These easily identifiable bottles would also be perfect for summer campers who are prone to losing things. The site is easy to use and the bottles range from $17-$31 depending upon your bottle and design selections. Check them out at greensender.com.

Things I Like...Super Siggs

Mo Willems

2010-04-06T21:23:00.006-04:00

Anna announced to me tonight during our cuddle that Mo Willems is her favorite author. I was shocked that my 5 year old darling daughter announced randomly in a half-asleep voice that she had a favorite author, and that she actually named a real author and got his name right...and I was doubly shocked that the author she named wasn't Jane O'Connor of Fancy Nancy fame (who we have met and spent some time with and who, I am sure, on any other given day would have been bestowed this great honor). I agree with my little Nans, I love Mo! I truly think he is one of the best contemporary children's authors/illustrators. Some of our favorites include the Elephant and Piggie series (of course! so much fun to read together), Edwina, the Dinosaur Who Didn't Know She Was Extinct (a dino who is civic minded, carries a purse and bakes cookies? and doesn't care that she should be extinct? does it get any better?? love her!), The Pigeon series, Knuffle Bunny....oh, they are all really good reads for your little one!

Things I Like..1. that my daughter has a favorite author. 2. MO MO MO!!

2010-04-05T21:45:00.004-04:00

I stumbled across the cutest website today, Magpie lovely. It is a boutique site that features products that are handmade by independent artists--every item unique, nothing produced in a factory. Lots of really cute stuff! I love the kids clothes and especially love these cute little pony tail holders. We are always looking for hair accessories in this house and at $4, these will make a great little addition to our hair accessory drawer!

Things I Like. Magpie Lovely.com

The Cowboys

2010-04-04T20:47:00.005-04:00

I am not feeling the Amazing Race this season. Maybe it is because I have been preoccupied with lots of "other" stuff, or perhaps this season is just too close on the heals of the last season--which was a great one! This season is just meh--still entertaining enough to keep me watching, but I am a bit disappointed in the hustle the teams have shown and think that the casting may have just left this season a bit flat. Thank god for The Cowboys, who seem to be the only team that is in it to win it. I don't find them charming or endearing, they haven't won my support for any reason other than that, in my opinion, they are really the only team still engaged and going for the win. The other teams just seem to be falling apart, or perhaps they are just not that savvy. Take tonight for example. The Cowboys started in last place, had a road block and still beat every other team to come in first place (Let's not even discuss that the road block was sniffing tea and presenting it to a meditating Guru--geesh, what an exciting challenge to watch). Really, are the other teams that bad? Are they already disengaged? Do they just not care to win?? HMMM, not sure what is going on here, but perhaps the show needs a bit of a longer hiatus to ensure GOOD casting and to keep us faithful watchers hungry and excited for more. JMHO.

Things I Like...The Cowboys

hot and sunny in April...in Rochester

2010-04-03T21:31:00.002-04:00

It was downright hot today...and yesterday....and with not a leaf on a tree yet, I have to say, it was just very weird! The kids were outside playing in their bathing suits on the slip-n-slide...running on the same grass that still has patches of snow rot. It was 84 here today, 84 hot, record shattering degrees (not sure we made it to 84 last summer)...allowed us to pack away the snow shovels, wash the salt from the winter snows off the cars and put the sleds away. I think I may have jinxed us, Rochester, so if the snow comes back, you have my packed away snow shovels to blame! We fired up the barbecue for dinner and even had strawberry shortcake for desert. It was nice to have a taste of summer so early into the spring! And yet, in the back of my mind there is a little voice whispering "climate change." We all know it won't last, and in April, it shouldn't. Bring on Spring!

Things I like...an unseasonably warm day...even though I probably shouldn't...

Kango Play Center

2010-04-02T20:39:00.006-04:00

I am not usually a big fan of enclosed play centers...I find them more often than not to be overcrowded, overpriced, overwhelming, overly-chaotic, and overflowing with germs!! I cringe at the very mention of it (bah-humbug, I know.) Well, today we had a birthday party for one of Anna's classmates at Kango, and seeing as it is Good Friday and the boys were also out of school, it turned into an outing with all my kiddos. AND THEY LOVED IT and I will admit, I did not cringe once! It was a holiday of sorts, and unusually hot out, so the place was not crawling with kids, which may have made all the difference. The place was CLEAN, and the kids were non-stop entertained for about 3 hours. Running from the enormous climbing structure complete with a zip-line of sorts (the boys played Indian Jones for about an hour!), air bouncer (ala bounce it out), little-kid friendly roller-skating rink (with REAL roller skates and hand rails along the walls to help new skaters!) and little-kid friendly redemption arcade games (you know, the ones that print out tickets for prizes). At $8/kid (no charge for adults) it was well worth it! The staff was very friendly, helpful and engaged, and the scene was not one of contained mass chaos (that you can't escape!). And did I mention it was pretty clean? I loved that there were Purell Hand Wipes dispensers located all over the place...what is better than Purell? Purell Hand Wipes! I want the wall-dispenser unit for my house :) There is also a little pizza place that is not half bad. All in all, it was a great experience and the kids talked about how much fun they had right up until their little heads hit their cozy pillows!

Kango is located on Jefferson Road near the Winton intersection...it is set back in a new building, so it is a bit hard to find. I would have never known it existed had it not been for this party! If you are in the Rochester area and have small kids (I would say 3-8) check it out!

Chocolate + Shoes

2010-04-01T20:33:00.002-04:00

Really, need I say more?

Things I Like...hoping a pair finds its way into my Easter Basket!
http://www.gayleschocolates.com/subcategory.php?cid=2&sid=69

Snack Happened

2010-03-31T20:50:00.004-04:00

Ok moms, you are going to LOVE LOVE LOVE this product!! Genius! This is a "why didn't I think of that?" product! Adorable (and I do mean adorable!) reusable and washable snack bags!! Say sayonara to eco-unfriendly plastic baggies that bust open in your purse, and bye-bye to those bulky plastic, Tupperware-esque containers with missing lids! Make room for fashion and function in these fabulous snack bags. Little ones can use them on playdates at the park, rides in the car, a snack while strolling at the mall, lunch out or at daycare and for our older "babies" these may be a welcome addition to lunch boxes. Throw them in the laundry at the end of the day and you are good to go! Seriously, why didn't I think of that??
Itzy Ritzy has so many other great baby products it makes me almost want to have another just to tout their goods...almost.....

Things I Like...Itzy Ritzy Snack Happened @ Itzy Ritzy.com (Love it!)

A chocolate a day....

2010-03-30T21:06:00.003-04:00

Just in time for Easter...the mecca of chocolate holidays, yet another study released touting the health benefits of my best friend, chocolate. And as per every other study, it is reported that just a very small amount of dark chocolate is all that is needed to keep blood pressure down and the heart healthy. The small amount is about the size of one foil wrapped Easter egg. Yeeaaahhh...well, that probably explains why my blood pressure is super low and I would guess I could also safely assume based upon my daily chocolate consumption that my heart is super healthy. Seriously, I am not eating candy bars every day, but really, one little egg? Who can do that? And to all you people out there who shake your head because I serve my children chocolate for breakfast (homemade from scratch chocolate chip waffles) every morning...ha! I am just making sure they get their daily dose of heart protection!

Things I like...A daily dose (or two or three)of chocolate

a long weekend....

2010-03-25T19:25:00.009-04:00

Who doesn't love a long weekend? Luckily for me, this weekend is a long one filled with family celebration and lots of good cheer (meaning wine). I fully intend to tune out and turn off all things internet-related, including this blog, in order to spend some quality time with people I love that I don't get to see nearly enough...unless/until I need a break from family time, pawn my children off for a few hours and hide out with the computer...so, perhaps there will be a surprise blog, but chances are slim. So, to fill the blog void, listed below, in no particular order are the things I like for Thursday-Sunday :)

Things I Like....
Haagen-Dazs Chocolate Chocolate Chip Ice Cream...it should just be called Divine

Sleeping in a well made bed with clean sheets

Chelsea Handler--I think we could be best friends.

LONG WEEKENDS!!!

Things I Like...And we are off!!!

the packing list

2010-03-24T18:12:00.009-04:00

The Packing List then....
Box of diapers for girl
Box of diapers/pull-ups for boys
Box of wipes
Can of formula for her
Baby bottles
Sippy cups
Box of jars of baby food for her
Box of food boys will eat
Diaper bag for her
Diaper bag for them
Double Stroller for boys
Single Stroller for her
Three umbrella strollers (just in case)
3 high chair seats
baby gates x3
pack-n-play for her
2 bed rails for them'
pillows x3
blankies x 3
binkies x2 (she sucks her thumb!)
two night lights
portable fan x2 for white noise in kids rooms
medicine bag
toothbrushes x 5
Suitcase for Boys
Small suitcase for girl
Suitcase for us
Suitcase for Au Pair
Add another large duffle in winter for boots, hats, mittens, snowpants, jackets
Bag of shoes for everyone
DVDs and DVD Player
Bag of toys
Snacks for car
Kids
Au Pair
Dog
Dog food
I know I am forgetting something...

The Packing List now....
Suitcase for them
Suitcase for us
Bag of shoes for everyone
Pillows
night lights
alarm clock for boys (so they don't get up at o'dark thirty)
medicine bag
toothbrushes x5
DVDs and DVD player
back pack for each kid with favorite book/toy/leapster/blanky/snack/water
Dog
Dog Food
Kids
I know I am forgetting something...

Things I like....the list IS getting shorter!

packing list

2010-03-24T18:12:00.001-04:00

Let's just call it....

2010-03-23T20:52:00.002-04:00

Seriously head and shoulders above the others...do we really need to bother week after week with the others?

Things I Like....Crystal Bowersox

Never Ending Playdate

2010-03-22T19:31:00.010-04:00

We live a constant playdate...from 6am to 7pm....everyday. Depending upon the day, this can be a curse or a blessing and even on the best of days, it is exhausting...there is no rest for the weary in this house! But, observing the kids today (a really good day), I realized what an awesome experience it is for them, this constant playdate, and what a truly amazing gift we have given to them.

The never ending playdate...they are as excited each and every morning to see each other as if it has been weeks since they last played together, and then of course, they fight, and then hug it out. They share stories over lunch from their day and laugh at the silly details. They play neighborhood- where Gi Joe, Batman, Darth Vader, Barbie and Polly Pocket all go about their daily business together. They make art and serve as each others muse. They cuddle up and watch movies together. They teach each other how to be patient and how sometimes (especially in our home) you have to speak up to be heard. They correct each other and console each other. They problem solve for each other. They share in their accomplishments and disappointments, and daily, what they aspire to be when they grow up. And, did I mention that they fight?....a lot?

Morning, noon and night, they are each others constant companions. Some days it works, really well, others, like when two decide they want to play without the third and the drama ensues, I have those moments when I wish I knew what it was like to just have one at home at a time, a luxury I never experienced--but those are simply moments, rare, fleeting moments. I know that soon enough they will be growing up and moving in different directions and I will miss observing (refereeing?) these wonderful crazy days, and they will have been gifted with enduring friendships and memories of days filled with the never ending playdate that was their childhood.

Things I like...the constant playdate (most days!)

Deb's Gemelli

2010-03-21T21:12:00.003-04:00

My friend Deb is an amazing cook! Many of my favorite recipes came from her kitchen! This is one of them!

Deb's Gemelli

EVOO
2-3 cloves garlic crushed
red pepper flakes
12-14 plum tomatoes
fresh basil
1 container sun dried tomato/basil feta
grated parm
1 lb. Gemelli pasta

Coat bottom of sauce pan with EVOO, add crushed garlic and sprinkling of red pepper flakes
Saute garlic on med heat
Remove most of garlic once browned, keep on separate plate

Wash and dice tomatoes...add to the sauce pan and cook over med heat until reduced to a sauce, stirring occasionally (half hour to 45 minutes)
Once reduced add in feta (I usually use most of the container) and continue to simmer on low--you can also sprinkle in some parm.

Boil gemelli until al dente

Once cooked, add gemelli to the sauce and cook for about 5 minutes
Wash and tear a few fresh basil leaves and add to sauce

Serve with crusty bread, a sprinkle of parm

You can also sprinkle the cooked garlic on top, or add some olive oil to the garlic plate and dip bread in it...yum!!

Enjoy!!

Things I Like...Deb's Gemelli

The Obvious Child

2010-03-20T22:20:00.002-04:00

Did you ever hear a song that you forgot existed that instantly conjures up a memory that you haven't thought of probably since the day it happened? Well, that is exactly what happened to me this week, and now I can't stop listening to the song!! Enter Paul Simon's The Obvious Child. I heard it on the way back from yoga on Thursday night and it instantly transported me back to 1990...my friend Kristen's living room...her mom teaching us moves she learned from an African Dancing class...there we were, the three of use dancing around in their living room to this great song...laughing and having a great time...no worries "these songs are true, these days are ours, these tears are free!" And after singing the lyrics of this great song all week, I am once again in awe at how the universe works...at how appropriate it is that this song brought back this memory of this wonderful high school sister-friend...and how timely it is for my life at this moment.

Things I Like....that the cross is always in the ballpark!

LOL at Target

2010-03-19T19:20:00.003-04:00

Cute, cute, cute! And at $14.99, a steal, considering dresses designed on Liberty of London fabric (not for Target) sell for £500.00+!! The collection is getting rave reviews, and although Target is not selling actual LOL fabric, they are selling licensed LOL prints on cotton, so the quality, while not that of LOL is not bad, especially for the price....especially for the kids stuff!! This little dress is sold out on line, so I am hoping that it will still be available at my local Target! If you haven't checked out the Liberty of London loot at Target, run to your nearest store!

Things I Like...Liberty of London for Target

Everyhwere you go....

2010-03-18T21:56:00.003-04:00

....always take the weather with you! I love the fact that it is March in Rochester and we have had an entire week of sunny days and warm weather. The kids have been riding bikes, climbing on their swingset, rolling in the grass (and mud), playing tag and soccer and what time is it Mr. Fox?, and just generally enjoying the outside and getting lots and lots of fresh air....which means their eyes are closing before their heads hit the pillow and they are enjoying great sleep! I know this weather is not going to last as they are already calling for the s-word on Monday, but we still have 60 degrees to look forward to tomorrow and 70 on Saturday, so this Western New Yorker who knows this March weather is a gift! (no matter how short or long-lived)fully intends to enjoy it!!

Things I Like...70 degree days in March!!!

The Daffodil Principle

2010-03-17T20:49:00.004-04:00

Several times my daughter, Julie, had telephoned to say, "Mom, you must come see the daffodils before they are over." I wanted to go, but it was a two-hour drive from my place by the beach to her lakeside mountain home.

"I will come next Tuesday," I promised, a little reluctantly, on her third call. The next Tuesday dawned cold and rainy. Still, I had promised, and so I got in the car and began the long, tedious drive.

When I finally walked into Julie's house and hugged and greeted my grandchildren, I said, "Forget the daffodils, Julie! The road is invisible in the clouds and fog, and there is nothing in the world except you and the children that I want to see bad enough to drive another inch!"

My daughter smiled calmly, "We drive in this all the time, Mom."

"Well, you won't get me back on the road until it clears and then I'm heading straight for home!" I said, rather emphatically.

"Gee, Mom, I was hoping you'd take me over to the garage to pick up my car," Julie said with a forlorn look in her eyes.

"How far will we have to drive?"

Smiling she answered, "Just a few blocks, I'll drive ... I'm used to this."

After several minutes on the cold, foggy road, I had to ask "Where are we going? This isn't the way to the garage!"

"We're going to the garage the long way," Julie smiled, "by way of the daffodils."

"Julie," I said sternly, "please turn around."

"It's all right, Mom, I promise, you will never forgive yourself if you miss this experience."

After about twenty minutes we turned onto a small gravel road and I saw a small church. On the far side of the church I saw a hand-lettered sign ...

"Daffodil Garden"

We got out of the car and each took a child's hand, and I followed Julie down the path. As we turned a corner of the path, and I looked up and gasped.

Before me lay the most glorious sight. It looked as though someone had taken a great vat of gold and poured it down over the mountain peak and slopes. The flowers were planted in majestic, swirling patterns, great ribbons and swaths of deep orange, white, lemon yellow, salmon pink, saffron, and butter yellow. Each different-colored variety was planted as a group so that it swirled and flowed like its own river with its own unique hue.

Five acres of the most beautiful flowers I had ever seen!

"Who planted all these?" I asked Julie.

"It's just one woman," Julie answered, "She lives on the property. That's her home," and she pointed to a well-kept A-frame house that looked small and modest in the midst of all that glory.

We walked up to the house and on the little patio we saw a poster ...

Answers to the Questions I Know You Are Asking

50,000 bulbs
one at a time
by one woman
2 hands, 2 feet
and very little brain
Began in 1958

There it was ... "The Daffodil Principle"

For me that moment was a life-changing experience. I thought of this woman whom I had never met, who, more than thirty-five years before, had begun - one bulb at a time - to bring her vision of beauty and joy to an obscure mountain top.

Still, this unknown, old woman had forever changed the world in which she lived. She had created something of magnificent beauty, and inspiration.

The principle her daffodil garden taught is one of the greatest principles of celebration:

learning to move toward our goals and desires one step at a time, (often just one baby-step at a time)
learning to love the doing,
learning to use the accumulation of time
When we multiply tiny pieces of time with small increments of daily effort, we too will find we can accomplish magnificent things. We can change the world.

"It makes me sad in a way," I admitted to Julie, "What might I have accomplished if I had thought of a wonderful goal thirty-five years ago and had worked away at it 'one bulb at a time' through all those years. Just think what I might have been able to achieve!"

My daughter summed up the message of the day in her direct way, "Start tomorrow, Mom," she said, "It's so pointless to think of the lost hours of our yesterdays. The way to make learning a lesson a celebration instead of a cause for regret is to only ask ... "

"How can I put this to use today?"

~~~

Jaroldeen Asplund Edwards, Author

Things I Like...Daffodil Days

Plank

2010-03-16T21:08:00.003-04:00

My current favorite pose, plank! I all of a sudden feel so strong when in plank-- like I could hold it forever. I even have moments during the day when I just want to drop down into plank...weird, I know. It is a total body experience from the tips of the fingers through the tips of the toes...I feel like I grow inches in this pose, pushing back through the heels and pulling in through the abdomen...it makes me feel taller, like my spine is super stretched, and for a girl with height envy, that is key!

Things I like...Plank pose

Ab Fab Grocery Bag--(aka a must have for Anna D)

2010-03-15T20:50:00.006-04:00

Seriously? How awesome are these bags?? It was only a matter of time until someone designed a truly cool, truly fabulous reusable grocery tote! Time to trade up the frumpy black and/or fruit print Weggies brand bags and/or the hug a tree Whole Foods bags and save the planet like you mean it! Nobody will be able to miss you in the cereal aisle--and these little shining delights are sure to be the conversation piece at the register! They are a bit pricey at $20 each, but really, that is such a small price for being a fabulous, planet-conscious and shiny shopper!

Things I Like.... Vere Reusable Shopper for shiny, happy people!

Nueva Cocina

2010-03-14T15:33:00.005-04:00

I think that I could probably alternate Italian and Mexican foods for each meal and live a very happy life! I found the Nueva Cocina Sopa De Frijoles Negros con Chipotle Chile at Weggies in the International/Mexican Food isle and was so impressed with the ingredient list and nutritional information, that I decided to give it a try! Well, I made it for lunch on this dank and dreary day and have to say that I am muy impressado! This soup is DELICIOSO!! I am a bit of a soup snob, I usually only eat homemade soups and besides Campbell's Healthy Choice Tomato, have never found a canned/pre-packaged soup that I like...and I love black bean soups so I was a bit skeptical at trying this one. I can say that this soup has won me over, tastes like homemade and will definitely be a staple in our pantry!! The soup does not skimp on the beans and you can actually see the other spices...it is not just an overly diluted broth with a stray bean here and there! It could also very easily serve as a hot dip appetizer with some Wegmans blue corn all natural tortilla chips and homemade guac---yum!!

The best part about this soup mix is that the ingredients are all natural, there are no preservatives or additives and besides a sodium content that is a bit high, it is actually very nutritious! AND it comes in a bag, not a can so you also don't have to worry about that nasty bisphenol A (yes, this estrogen-mimicking chemical is also being found in canned goods--as much as double the levels found in baby/plastic bottles!) It really does look and taste like a homemade soup and is an incredibly fast and delicious meal to make!

Things I Like....Nueva Cocina Sopa De Frijoles Negros con Chipotle Chile

Big chunks of Lucite

2010-03-13T20:08:00.007-05:00

I am not usually one to sport big, chunky jewelry, but I have to say that I am loving the oversized jewelry trend this season, specifically the big chunks of Lucite. There is just something very clean and appealing about the necklace above..a bit preppy, a bit modern...dress it up...dress it down....big chunky Lucite all tied up with string...these are a few of my favorite things....

I am especially loving the big, chunky and MESSY necklaces like the one below, which is a bit out of character for this type-A, ultra organized, everything in its place, not a big fan of messiness kind of gal'....but I'm loving this necklace (too bad it is about $400).

And of course, my man M. Kors does not disappoint with his Lucite bracelet watch...love it!

All of these gems can be found on the Bloomies site.

Things I Like...Lucite!

Broccoli Rabe with Oreccchiette

2010-03-12T18:54:00.008-05:00

Broccoli Rabe, Rapini, Broccoletti, Brocci di Rapi, Cime di Rap, Rappi, Friarielli...whatever you call it, this leafy green bouquet is easy to cook, delicious and sooo nutritious--chock-full of vitamins A, C, K, as well as calcium, iron, and potassium.

This is one of my favorite recipes:

1-2 bunches broccoli rabe chopped
3-4 garlic cloves thickly sliced
red pepper flakes
3/4 cup olive oil
1/2 lemon

1 lb orecchiette pasta

freshly grated parm cheese
salt and pepper

Chop broccoli rabe and soak in a bowl of cold water
In a heavy skillet, slowly sautee garlic and red pepper flakes, slowly increase temperature to get the oil very hot (sizzling!)
Once oil is popping, drain the rabe and add by handfuls to the skillet (I usually place the skillet in the sink as the oil will pop and splash once the rabe is added to it)
Return skillet to low heat and stir the broccoli rabe until wilted. Remove from heat, cover and let stand about 10 minutes. A few minutes in, add the juice from half a lemon.

Boil orecchiette, drain and return to pot
Add the broccoli rabe/oil to the pasta and combine.
Salt and pepper to taste

Serve topped with fresh grated parm.

Delicioso!!

Things I Like...Leafy greens!

Watch this

2010-03-11T20:29:00.006-05:00

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SOj6K_BoIAc

...and then support the March of Dimes.

This is one of many procedures our babies endured during those first fragile days of their lives. This is one of the many, many reasons we are passionate about supporting the March of Dimes.

This is a photo of Max during his first week of life.

This is a photo of Max today.

This is a link to our March of Dimes March for Babies Team Page:
http://www.marchforbabies.org/s_team_page.asp?seid=1367660. If you choose to donate, you can pay online-— it’s easy and secure. You can also donate by a check made payable to the March of Dimes. Any amount you can give will mean a lot.

Things I Like....March of Dimes!

Big Bad Bunny

2010-03-10T21:08:00.006-05:00

I love reading to my kids---bedtime story-time is definitely the highlight of each day. Every night after tubby, the kids each get to pick a book that they want to read (and now they are reading to us!). Tonight, Anna's pick was Big Bad Bunny by Franny Billingsley. What a great book!! Anna, being the youngest and my baby, really appreciated the adorable tale of Baby Boo-Boo....she could completely relate to not wanting to always be the baby (Baby?! GRRRRR.Stomp.Roar!) The illustrations are adorable and the story is repetitive, so great for reading aloud and reading along!

Things I Like....Baby Boo-Boo, Mama Mouse and Big Bad Bunny

Zach Galifianakis on SNL

2010-03-09T20:24:00.004-05:00

So, I am of the opinion that much of SNL lately has not been that funny...in fact, it has been pretty damn bad! A few skits here and there usually starring Kristin Wiig (Canandaigua native, woot! woot!)seem to be providing us viewers with the hope of something funny yet to come, so we keep faithfully watching week after week. And yet, week after week, the show seems to disappoint...they are in a real slump. This past week, however, I have to say the show was pretty damn funny (if you were able to watch on fast forward and skip the not so funny stuff..ah hem bidet...)....mostly due to Zach G...who seemed to be somewhere out in left field, operating on another plane, reading the teleprompter way too much and sill stumbling over his lines. He looked like he was kind of stinky and at times really uncomfortable, but I think that is his appeal, he is kind of that awkward, creepy guy who might be harmless, but might also be the perv next door, you really can't tell...he comes across as being raw (as in unpolished) and he was really, really funny. The opening monologue was so oddly funny, it was refreshing in a way (oh your out of that? how about Wolf Blitzer at Burning Man; I have just returned from Canada opening for Miles Davis, I mean, Kilometer Davis--funny stuff!) and definitely funnier than Ashton in his undies, which, clue phone!, was not funny. The rest of the show had its moments...the kissing family skit was hard to watch, but really funny (some suggest they are loosely based on my family--we are very huggy lovey!). The 30 years of Zach on NBC was creative and hysterical--especially the Law and Order scene (pew...pew)...and then there was the flute player in that creepy beige jumpsuit...definitely laugh out loud funny all the while maintaining that slightly gross, creepy factor!! So writing this, I am realizing that perhaps I have just been surrounded by 6 year old boy humor for far too long and that may have been the appeal to me this weekend, it was familiar...silly, goofy, little boy, stink humor.

Things I Like...In my opinion, Zach and JT should alternate hosting from here on out!

Jackie-O sunglasses

2010-03-08T21:29:00.004-05:00

My daughter is a style maven--she has been since she was about 2. She insists on picking her outfits everyday and most days her style just amazes me. She knows what she wants to look like and cannot be swayed. So, I don't fight it, I just let her do her thing and encourage her delight at pulling herself together. She has a definite style all her own, and most days, her style works! In this photo, she is channeling Jakie-O--oversized sunglasses, white gloves...she is just missing a pillbox hat and a Cartier watch! I love this photo, the joy and confidence...and the sunglasses!!

Things I Like....my little Jackie-Ohhhhhh

They're back....

2010-03-07T18:58:00.004-05:00

Big moment of weakness today--I think I just about ate my weight in mini eggs! I love these little crunchy candies and I was so happy to see them in the store that I had to buy them as a treat for the kids (that is what I told myself, anyway!). Whatever, they were delicious and a once a year treat...and to me, they signify the end of the candy season (candy season runs from Halloween through Easter). The last hurrah before spring/summer when we can finally usher out the holiday candy (Halloween, Thanksgiving, Christmas, Valentines and finally, Easter!) and welcome in the fresh produce of spring and summer (nature's candy!). Get them while you can!

Things I Like...Cadbury Mini Eggs

Jewelry that can change a life

2010-03-06T20:28:00.006-05:00

When I left my house this cold, sunny morning, I anticipated enjoying a hot, sweaty, centering vinyasa class. When I arrived at the studio, the buzz was all about these beautiful, colorful beaded necklaces and bracelets that the owner, Cyndi, had brought back from her recent trip to Uganda. Cyndi traveled to Uganda with Off the Mat Into the World, an amazing group of yogis united to make a difference in the world (http://www.offthematintotheworld.org/). In 2009, Off the Mat raised half a million dollars (Cyndi and the Rochester community raised $20,000 of that total!) and focused on eradicating the tremendous financial and health crises that exist in sub-Saharan Africa. I have not heard the details of the trip, but I know that while in Uganda, the OTM team worked to literally rebuild a birthing center, building it up brick by brick and providing some basic supplies to make the center safer for laboring women and their newborns. Something like 6000 women a year die in childbirth in Uganda, c-sections are regularly performed without anesthesia and one pair of disposable rubber gloves and a one-use birthing kit is used 15 times before being discarded! The money raised went a long way in helping many women--which brings me back to these beads. In an effort to continue helping the women in Uganda, Cyndi brought back these gorgeous beaded necklaces and bracelets and is donating 100% of the proceeds.

How gorgeous are these colors? These beaded necklaces are just perfect to bring in Spring!! And there is a great story to them! Looking at this photo you would never know that these beads are actually made from scraps of paper rolled tightly and threaded together in beautiful designs. These truly beautiful pieces are made by a group of Ugandan women. To be a member of this "artists" group, each woman had to apply, the criteria: mother, widow, HIV positive. Over 600 women applied. There are about 21 or so women in this group, each is taught the trade and also how to manage the money to sustain their communities. By purchasing a necklace or a bracelet, you are literally helping to sustain a community of women and children who would otherwise have little to no means of supporting themselves and each other.

Breathe is selling the bracelets for $10 and the necklaces for $20 and they are truly beautiful! The best part is that through the purchase of these beautiful beaded necklaces and bracelets, you will be making a huge difference in the lives of so many women and children. So, while $10-$20 may not seem like a lot for us, wrap your head around this: just .10 (yes, a dime) provides one feeding for an infant (how many dimes do you have in your couch cushions and car floor alone?), $1 provides a days worth of food to an orphaned child (1/3 the cost of your cup of Starbucks), and just $1,000 can buy complete pre-natal care for 125 women(only 50 necklaces)! Our money really can go a long way and we can make a difference in ways that are effortless and enrich our lives as well. If you are in Rochester, stop by Breathe and treat yourself!!

So, needless to say, I got much more than I bargained for this morning...and while the yoga was great, the bracelet that I walked out with was a true gift, a symbol of hope and lives changed...mine included. Gratitude.

Things I like....Jewelry that can change a life

Flowing Tiers Tank

2010-03-05T19:35:00.003-05:00

File this under love it, love it, love it, need it, must have it, will buy it! The spring catalog from Anthropologie arrived this week and it was not until today that I had a chance to peruse its lovely pages. And, I am still drooling. Their spring collection is very nice, and I am not usually a huge Anthropologie fan. The clothes this season are ultra feminine, textured, flowy, some great prints and just really, really pretty! Most are a bit too dressy (nice)for my immediate needs and current position as indentured servant, but I think I can definitely find some place to wear this tank to, and if not, screw it, I will wear it around after the kids go to bed or on a solo trip to Wegmans and just feel pretty!!

Things I Like... jersey and chiffon tank that will "shish and sway in the breeze"

The Lip Slip

2010-03-04T21:38:00.002-05:00

I am a Burt's Bees lip balm kind of gal, but when I am feeling extra fancy I reach for The Lip Slip. This is the most luxurious lip balm ever...it is so luscious that I almost think it would be too indulgent to wear every day. It is creamy and glossy, it just melts into your lips and wears well all day long. Because it brings out the natural color in your lips and is just so pretty and shimmery, I like to substitute it for lipstick, which usually leaves my lips all dried out. I have also read it works wonders for dry nails and cuticles! For those truly special days, or not so special days where you just want to feel fabulous, treat your pucker to the full spa experience and try the lip scrub before applying the lip balm. Magic!

Things I Like...Sara Happ's Lip Slip

Dear Diary....

2010-03-03T21:26:00.007-05:00

Is anyone else out there a lifelong journal keeper? I received my very first diary when I was in third grade (this is not a photo of my diary--my first one had a cat on it and came with a little gold lock and key) and I have been writing in my "dear diary" ever since. I still have that very first little diary, filled with grade school doodles and the angst of everything that comes with that time in life....names of people that I do not remember who were so important in that moment, events that have had lasting impacts on my life, and of course, pics of Rob Lowe, Michael Jackson and Ralph Macchio torn from the pages of BOP, Teen Beat and Tiger Beat.
In high school, the diary transitioned to a journal. I still have all of my high school journals, college journals, study abroad journal, and my "real-life" journal that I still write in religiously today--all chronicling my life and times...small moments, big events...bad days, good days...loves lost and found...tears of joy...tears of anger...tears of sadness...lots of laughter...all in there. A pressed flower picked while climbing Salisbury Hill evokes the memory of listening to Peter Gabriel singing the song that made the hill famous while climbing up with Liz and Sue, pictures from Christmas formals with the first boy who really broke my heart (and thank god he did!), stress associated with finals, graduation, moving to Boston, my first job, having the time of my life in Boston, getting married!!! getting married!!! getting married!!!...wanting a baby...trying to have a baby, not having a baby, not having a baby, not having a baby...the whole heart wrenching ordeal and finally, the joy of having BABIES!!! The fear and sadness of having those babies too soon...the stress and guilt of having micro-preemie babies...the pain and pride of watching them struggle and fight for their tiny lives...the cautious joy of finally welcoming them home and the excitement of watching them grow. Discovering #3was on its way so soon! A GIRL! The chaos and the fun of life with three little ones... and generally, all that comes with life in its full expression. Lessons learned, lives lost, loves gained....all this and more detailed in the moment. Reflective. Restorative.
As I am the person to always put things in writing, it was only natural that when I did have my children, that I started this tradition for them (whether they like it or not!). From day one, for each of my children, I have kept a journal for them, writing down their first moments, first milestones, cute sayings, challenging days and amazing accomplishments--it is my love story to them. To be completely honest, I started the boys' journals as therapy for myself when they were in the NICU...it was a way for me to celebrate their lives, to document their days, and honestly, at the time, I was not sure if they were going to make it, so it was a way for me to ensure that I would always have them, those delicate memories from those delicate first days. I cherish these journals to my children and hope that one day they will understand what a gift this is to them and how the words are filled with heart, soul gratitude and hope.
I have also started having each of them keep a journal. This project began as a writing exercise, but really has turned into so much more! Each week, they write down a few sentences about something that they enjoyed doing the previous week, or something that they are looking forward to. At this point, there is a lot about video games, fun with uncles,aunts and cousins, snow and Champ. I know they will have fun reading these one day because I laugh a lot when they are writing them (not at them, of course!) Little frozen snip-its of time.

Things I Like....my dear diaries....

Fro Yo

2010-03-02T20:52:00.002-05:00

Yes, there is still snow on the ground, and it was a balmy 36 here today, but the boy next door wore shorts to school (no kidding) so I figured, what the heck, it's time to pull out the ice cream cones! My kids picked cookies n' cream and cookie dough, but me? I am a huge fan of Edy's Yogurt Blends. If you just say no to fro yo, you have to reconsider and try this, because I promise you, it is not your average frogurt. It is rich and creamy and just really, really good. It is gluten free, kosher and 110 calories for 1/2 cup (which is a good amount for a small ice cream cone) add the cone, and you have a tasty dessert for under 200 calories and 3.5grams of fat, not bad!. So, let's all think like my neighbor in the shorts, skip right past spring and welcome in summer with a frogurt cone!

Things I Like.....Edy's Cappuccino Chip Frozen Yogurt

My favorite tank

2010-03-01T22:04:00.002-05:00

Well, they don't call it the favorite tank for nothing!! Definitely my most favorite piece of clothing ever...I wear one almost every day, in every season. Spring/Summer obvious choice, Fall/Winter GREAT for layering. Again, a piece of clothing that I own in almost every color (wait until later in the season and they have a 2 for sale!). The website states that the tank is even better this season (could it be possible?) and I just love how they have it paired with the jeans and the layered necklace...too cute!! In fact, the entire JCrew site is filled with adorable spring (& summer for Rochester!) attire!

Things I Like.....JCREW "New" Favorite Tank

Eva Cassidy

2010-02-28T22:09:00.006-05:00

I daydream that when I open my mouth to sing, this voice comes out. Eva Cassidy was a folksy, bluesy cover artist--an amazing, and sadly, relatively unknown talent. Her voice is beautiful and her renditions are truly moving--my favorites are Fields of Gold, Songbird and Time after Time. Her voice is as beautiful as her story is, in a sense, tragic (google her if you need to know!). I am not sure how her songs were "discovered," I first heard them in a yoga class---it was after a hips class during savasana---and the tears just started streaming down my face....cathartic. I have been a huge fan ever since.

Things I Like....Eva Cassidy (and a good cry!)

a good man

2010-02-27T21:16:00.004-05:00

For the past two nights and days, our house has been plagued by the stomach bug. It all began with Max who was up the majority of Thursday night vomiting everywhere imaginable...3 complete bed changes later (oy vey! the laundry!) and he was on the mend come Friday and good as new Friday night. To try and stave off this nastiness and save the rest of us from getting this bug, I quarantined Max from the other kids for most of the day. Embarrassingly, I also admit that in a desperate attempt to stay well, I even tried that crazy onion trick (you know, the one were you slice an onion and stick it in each "sick" room to ward off/absorb the sickness--well, spoiler alert! it did nothing more than make my house stink like onion! don't laugh, I was desperate and trying to be holistic---whatevs!) So, Friday comes and goes and we are all good, no puke to speak of...until around midnight...and it is Michael's turn...he is a very dramatic puker, proclaimed a couple of times that he was dying (poor baby!) and wanted to be someone else (so sad!) and he somehow managed to cover any territory missed by his brother the previous night, twin power!! (note: my laundry room is overflowing with pukey sheets, towels and superhero pj's!). Mike got it bad, my child who is up like clockwork at 6:02 every morning and then continues to moves a mile a minute, laid in his bed until about 11am...we were worried. But, before we could become too concerned about Mike in bed, puke apparently begets puke and it was Anna's turn! She came running into the kitchen stripped down to her pajama bottoms (because she was feeling hot) and then without a moments notice...projectile...all over...she hit me! About 10 minutes later, it was my turn. I tried to keep it together, tried just hangin' out on the couch, mind over matter my mantra, but before long, this mom was out for the count...and I have been writhing in bed with a nasty stomach bug ever since!

I rarely get sick, and when I do, I never retreat to my bed... I always manage to hold it together and somehow get through, especially when my kids are sick!! Well, not this time, I had no choice, I was completely knocked on my ass (for the second time this week, the first time, I literally fell square on my butt shoveling icy snow..fun times.) I told Mitia, my dear, sweet man, that I needed about an hour to rest...that was at noon, it is now 9:30 and I am just sitting up, sipping water, enjoying a popsicle...and finally keeping it down (sorry, TMI, I know). I know I should not have to make special mention of the fact that he held it together today, after all he is their Dad and that is part of his job. Today, however, I just have to give him props because besides a kiss good night from my babes and assurances that I was, in fact, not dying, I didn't hear a peep out of them all day!! He somehow manage to keep them away from my room AND quiet all day!! I am sure the fact that 2 out of the three were not feeling all so well had something to do with it, and honestly, I am not sure I want to know what they did all day, but in any event, I am grateful!! He emptied their little puke buckets, rubbed their backs, made them toast, rationed out teaspoons of water and well, was the most amazing nurturer today! Hooray for a good man!
Things I Like...my good man!

In need of a little spring

2010-02-26T20:39:00.002-05:00

Like much of the Northeast, we are once again snowed in. Well, not literally snowed in, but we do have lots of (way too much) snow. March is a few days away, which means April (the last month of winter in Rochester) is that much closer....sigh....still seems like we have a bit of a haul to get to spring!! I am definitely in need of a little spring-is-on-its-way pick-me-up...something small that will remind me it is coming....something that evokes the memory of taking a spring break somewhere warm, tropical, fun! Something bright, colorful, not anything too pricey and god knows nothing that I will have to squeeze my winter butt and hips into (and for that one reason only, I am glad spring is a few months off!). Something exactly like these great bangles by Kate Spade! They are so much fun, and each bracelet is engraved with a cute little idiom (pink: Tickled Pink!, black: ace up your sleeve). When you touch them, hear them, see them, they will serve as a reminder that a brighter season is indeed only month(s) away!!

Things I Like....Kate Spade Idiom Bangle Bracelet